This may seem stupid to some people that I’m labelling or categorising the different people who come to the strip clubs, but in my defence I am the person (and I speak on behalf of every person that works in the Adult Entertainment Indstry) that has to put up with a lot of bull shit, day-in day-out, there’s always one arse hole and it seems he/she was put on earth to deliberately ruin people’s days, because of the ignorance this person so luckily holds as a great personality trait!
I mean, I know everyone has to deal with arse holes no matter what the job is that you do, it’s one of those things in life where no matter how much you complain about these arse holes and no matter how nice you act to them (even though you want to stab them in the eye with a fork) you can’t help but feel so angry afterwards. I salute all the people who let it go, and don’t get me wrong I don’t hold all the anger throughout my shift and become a miserable cow for the rest of the shift, I just rant about it to anyone that will listen until I’m satisfied that the hate I have towards them has converted to love, (which is never, really I won’t be satisfied until I get to line all the people up who disrespected me whilst parading about in the club, and give them all a piece of my mind, whilst horny whipping the shit out them until they cry blood, muahah evil!)
Firstly it’s certain girls, they pay to come and watch, yet they get offended by it, or they make snide remarks.
Are you that fucking stupid? Seriously?! Who on earth would go somewhere (pay for it) and get upset over it that much you feel the need to call me a slut? You just fucking paid me to be a slut!!! If I didn’t act like a slut you’d say ‘oh well that was shit’, and that’s embarrassing, imagine being called a shit stripper. I’m sure it’s borderline impossible to be a shit stripper. Taking your clothes off and gyrating around the place like your Beyonce, there’s nothing shit about that! But why? That’s my question, and if one day a girl stumbles across my blog who has done exactly what I just described or you feel that you would be that person, please, just please I beg of all your nasty stupidness to answer me why!
Brisbane was by far the worst for it! You walk into a place that says in bright neon lights ‘naked ladies’ ‘live dances’ ‘girls girls girls’ and it’s notoriously known for what it provides, so you don’t walk in expecting to see the cast of Neighbours sat having a cuppa do you?! You go in to see what’s being advertised! Soooo many times girls would walk in, and I’d be there dancing around in my kimono (which I devastatingly lost, boo!), so all that’s on show are my arms and legs, but oh my god their faces drop like a sack of spuds! It’s like I walked over and farted the worst fart possible and they caught the plague from it. Oh I’m sorry.. Do you want me to not strip even though you just paid me to do so? Hmmm.
Then it’s the jealous girls that come in with their boyfriends, you see them coming in, and before they notice you, you can see there giggly and curious to what there going to experience. Ohhhh as soon as she see’s you it’s a completely different story. I would have to go over and say hello, and show them how the place works, the boys are usually very polite because there intimidated (You are boys! Your scared of strippers!!), the girlfriends short answer you or stare at you or ignore you, so I like to touch them, I stroke her arms, take her over to a specific area, they hate it, I’ve ruined their night and I love it! Kill them with kindness!!! But girls have a secret language, we know when we’re being fake and bitchy. So it’s like rubbing salt in the wound when I’m super nice and paying her attention because really she wants me to die a painful death for even approaching them, and she’s quickly changed her mind on being in the venue, when it’s too late, you paid me to slut it up, and just for that I’m going to grind the shit out of you whilst your boyfriend watches in awe! *finger snapping, hair flick, strutting away*
That’s how I deal with the bipolar bitches, that’s their names since 2013 I tarnished them with my imaginary stripping tarnishing brush, and smothered them with it!
Only once have I ever experienced a really bad, and I mean I thought she was going to attack me, security dragged her out and I had to be locked in a room, kinda bad situation.
A girl and her boyfriend came in, really early it wasn’t even busy I think they were the first people in the place, and myself, Leigh and a few others where on the floor. The boyfriend asked how it works here and about prices for dances, now as this is happening the girlfriend is stood there observing, all seemed pretty normal, so I answered everything he wanted to know, I promise I wasn’t being slutty about any of it, just having a normal chat with them. As soon as he took her hand to lead her over, deeper into the depths of nakedness, I kid you not, she dropped to the floor screaming “get these fucking sluts away from me”, screaming it over and over and over, it’s sounded like she was being murdered brutally, on the floor kicking the shit out of her poor boyfriend who was trying to pick her up, Tom (security) came running in like ‘what the fuck is going on?’, at this point she’s stood back up, her boyfriends holding her back, she’s chucking sunglasses, her phone, her compact mirror at myself and Leigh, I was actually petrified this girl was a lot bigger than me, and she could eat me alive with out having to put much effort in, Toms shouting at me and Leigh to go and lock ourselves in a private room, to which it happily obliged and couldn’t have ran any faster, you could still hear all the commotion going on for at least another 10 minutes, I’m panicking thinking shreks going to break the door down any second and annihilate me, it was quite disturbing because you could hear her crying and screaming ‘why did you bring me here?’, but eventually we were allowed to free ourselves from the private room and everyone was so shocked at what just happened. FUCKING FRUIT LOOPS!, I do wonder if their still together, and wether she managed to hold it together for the next stripping experience she went on, who knows?!
My favourite arseholes (LIES there’s no such thing), but the ones I tolerate more are the girls who come in and just laugh, they just sit and laugh at you. No it’s not nice to be laughed at, especially by girls because girls notice all your flaws, all guys care about are boobs, ass and fanny, they don’t care about that birth mark, or the little bit of cellulite, or that your not stick thin, but the bitches who are sat their laughing (who also have those flaws), oh they notice it, they could probably spot a split end from a mile off, and because of that flaw it’s hysterical, it’s funnier than Britney’s break down appartently? At first when this happened it did make me so insecure, I used to stand there thinking something was really wrong with me, are my boobs saggy (at the age of 21 very unlikely), is my fanny gross (nope it’s not I have a neat fanny), I used to watch what the other girls would do when they had to put up with it (I don’t follow Sicily and jump off stage to give a bitch a hefty left hook, oh no, I’m not that kind of girl) but they used to sexually assault the girls eyes, like explicit shit that’s done on XXX porn films, they would spread them legs even wider, and say I have to give you a sex education lesson because you obviously have never seen a naked body before you frigit bunch of virgins, I on the other hand didn’t see the point in that, I simply would swan over to them and say, “your daddy doesn’t laugh” and give them a wink, nine times out of ten it works, and they soon leave, sometimes you get abuse but I shrug it off, I suppose I ask for it if I retaliate to them. So you either choose to ignore the laughing, or you come back at them with some cattiness! Meow!
It’s not always girls, guys can be utter tools aswell. I once had a guy and who booked me for a private when I moved to a new club in Victoria, and I went into the room, and explained how it works, if he wanted a lapdance he would have to pay extra if not then it’s a non-contact strip tease, couldn’t be explained any more simpler. Apparently not, “Well I want hand relief”, what the fuck?! So I reply very politely “Oh, well we don’t do anything like that here, it’s a strip club not a brothel and I’m not a prostitute, I’m a dancer, I’m sure if you ask the front desk they can tell you where a brothel is”, because believe it or not the amount of people who come into strip clubs and think they can get sex is ridiculous! But no this guy wasn’t taking no for an answer, and was getting very lairy with the situation, “I just paid $50 for a private dance, your telling me I’m not getting anything out of it?”, what sort of question is that? So I told him “You can leave by all means, I’m not keeping you here, the service your after we don’t provide, and besides, you’ve paid $50 to the club, do you really think I would give you a hand job for $50, that’s so offensive”, it shut him up, and he went with the non contact strip tease, which I was so thankful for because if he wanted to pay for the lap dance I wouldn’t be able to resist strangling him whilst he’s sat there in the chair. So I begin my dance and to be fair I wasn’t putting much effort in, I hated this prick, so I wanted him to feel like he’s wasted his money even more. He begins sighing, complaining about the music, tutting, rolling his eyes, looking on his phone. Enough was enough at this point, I told him “Your being very rude, if you don’t want to be here then leave”, I opened the door but he refused to leave, so I carried on and he started going on about films “so what’s the latest film you’ve seen”, I sat down, I’ve given up with this prick at this point, I tell him I don’t watch films, I read books, I recently read a book about a stripper who killed her clients and got away with it by saying it was self defence as guys would try to man handle her, I explained how it makes you question what you can get away with when in a private room and how guys mis judge you, time was up and he left without saying a word. I wanted to kick the shit out of him,I really did, but I just told him I’ll see him soon, with an innocent smile. I never seen him again, though he did come in recently and book a different girl and she left in tears, he was a prick to her and when the time was up in the private room he chucked $10 at her and told her she wasn’t even worth that much. It’s disgusting how a guy can do that, he has to pay for a woman’s attention and company to treat them like shit? I put it down to a weird fetish where he likes to degrade women to make him feel better because his wife left him when she realised he ain’t shit! Whether that’s true or not but I hope it is, I’m sending a viral high five out to that ex-wife!
The name callers are the fun ones if you feel like having a good argument with someone, I’ve been called so many things “Slut, Hoe, Bitch, Whore..” The list goes on and on. I used to reply with a simple “Oh fuck off you prick”, but it just eggs them on to do it more, so now I’m more of a “Well, you’ve just paid my rent to be a slut, so thank you”, or “oh babes, stop stroking my ego”, it’s weird how when you take it as a compliment or tell them that this means nothing to you other than money, they realise you don’t care and they shut up. They must imagine me rolling around naked on my bed back home covered in $$$ having a ball. I like to imagine that too, but I’m not that rich, just yet!
Name calling is pretty much expected, to people who aren’t open about their sexuality, or their sexual preferences and experiences, they have so much to learn, and when they are thrown into the most innocent place of all sexualness (yes I believe stripclubs are innocent) they refer to strippers as bitches and hoes, I can see where they get it from, god damn you America! But it’s actually a good experience for people who go there for the right reasons, and we do always get really nice people who are just intrigued or curious to what it’s all about. I’ve met some lovely lovely lovely women who tell me that I’ve got balls (not literally that would be weird) to do what I’m doing, and to keep going at it, high fives and hugs all round. Some girls come and question me because their interested in the industry and would like to give it ago but their too scared, and I find that so sad, there is nothing to be scared about once you’ve done it, and it’s a shame that people can’t accept the naked body, like they’re almost ashamed, we were born naked for crying out loud!!! Everyone has a naked body what is so wrong about it?
It is a weird circle to be involved in, it’s ‘wrong’ for a woman to dance around wearing next to nothing for money, so wrong people pay good money to see, then it’s the pricks who spectate to make you feel bad about what you do, yet they come to watch because they want to, not because they were forced they were curious to what it’s all about, and if they’re lovely people they still pay to see a naked body, and we go back to the begin.
To all the people who come in with amazing attitudes, I love you! I actually love you, you make me enjoy my shifts even more than normal! I hope you all have the best sex lives and keep boning your partners until your 99, and live happily and healthy for the rest of your lives!
You other bastards on the other hand, I hope you catch a really bad case of gonorrhoea and your private parts suffer for the rest of your lives, and people laugh at you!
I feel like I’ve just sat and spoken to a shrink for the last hour and a half and I will be able to sleep peacefully!
Chloe xx